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Winter Relaxation and Contemplation for our Heart and Mind

Sunday, January 30th, 2011

The holidays are over and we are now deep into the winter season. In Traditional Chinese Medicine, the winter is about conservation of energy, efficiency and slowing down our pace in concert with nature. As nature slows down and everything grows slower or stops, the potential for new growth in the spring is already taking place. A beautiful place to see this is inside a beehive. While the bees are dormant and less active, the queen bee is already laying drone eggs. These drone eggs take 28 days to hatch and another few weeks to mature and be ready for their role of fertilizing the queen bee in the spring.

Winter time is an excellent time for retrospection, meditation and exploration of deeper issues. To dive deeper into our being we need to slow down. An example is our thinking and “doing” process. We are usually very busy both in our activity level as well as our thinking process. In fact, we are so busy that we usually are not even aware of how sped up our thoughts and actions have become. When we slow down through meditation, relaxation or simply taking some time off, we may be overwhelmed by the recognition of how busy our lives really are. Our natural reaction is to run away by staying busier, and the cycle continues to wind us up even tighter.

If we can take the time to relax and slow down, however, it can provide an opportunity for introspection. There is a gap between each of our thoughts and when we have racing thoughts, this gap is not recognized. However, when we slow down the gap becomes more evident giving rise to “stuff” that is stuck under the surface of our mundane activities. While some of it may be pleasant and ”blissful,” some of it may be unpleasant and bring up feelings of anger, attachment, desire, jealousy, pride, and other emotions. Simply pushing them away or denying them won’t really work on a long-term basis and can be detrimental to our health.

A better way to deal with these feelings and emotions can be achieved through a variety of methods that will benefit our health and wellbeing. We can antidote them, transform them or free them through meditation and contemplation. Let’s take anger as an example…When anger arises, we can antidote it with patience or transform it into compassion for the person that has made us angry. But we can actually release and free these feelings through resting the mind and the thinking process. As we all well know, this is easier said than done. However, the end result of such a process when one engages in it sincerely, diligently and consistently over a prolonged period of time is a true “change of heart.” There is a wonderful book called Change of Heart that summarizes the teachings of H.E. Chagdud Tulku Rinpoche – a phenomenal Tibetan mediation master who worked tirelessly during his life to help people gain a deeper insight into their mind and heart, and find greater happiness and peace. His advice transcends any religion, ethnicity and gender, and can be of enormous use to anyone interested in making their life and the lives of the people around them better.

This level of mind/heart medicine is an integral part of true wholesome health, and the winter time is a good time to incorporate this facet into your lifestyle. The process of slowing down and peeling taking place during the winter has a much different quality than the peeling process that we engage in during our spring and fall cleanse. The end results may be similar, but physiologically, different organ systems are involved.

Caring for ourselves is a year round, lifetime process. Synchronizing our self-care programs with the seasonal wisdom and advice offered by Traditional Chinese Medicine can help to harmonize our beings and provide us with natural vitality and wellness throughout the changing year, and our ever-changing phases in life.

How to Relax?

Thursday, May 21st, 2009

Are you always in a hurry? Always running around trying to get things done? Why not be in a hurry to relax? Here are a few things you can to in a hurry to relax. Use as many as you need to achieve the level of relaxation you need.

Walk away. If you can, just walk away from what is stressing you. If you have reached your boiling point, take a break from it. Come back and deal with it after you have had time to breath.

Breathe. Just stop and breathe. Take in a deep breath in through your nose and hold it for 5 seconds. Slowly exhale through your mouth. Wait 5 seconds and take another deep breath in. Repeat this 5 times. If it hasn’t helped after 5 times, do it again.

Pay attention. Take note of the things that stress you out. How many of those things can you do something about before they actually happen? Pay attention to how you deal with things. Many of our stresses are caused by how we react.

Listen to music. Put on some music that relaxes you. Not everyone relaxes to the same type of music so find something that works for you. As long as it relaxes you, don’t worry about whether or not anyone else likes it.

Go for a walk. Take a leisurely stroll around the block. Pay attention to all the sounds, smells and sights along the way. The purpose is to put your mind on something else. Breathe in the fresh air and enjoy the scenery.

Laugh out loud. Find something, anything, to laugh about. Even if you have to laugh at yourself or make up a silly joke, just laugh.

Sip some tea. Chamomile has been proven to relax the nerves. Any hot drink before bed can help you to relax so you can sleep a little better.

Scream. I am sure many reading this has been stressed to the point of just wanting to scream. Well, go ahead and scream. No one is stopping you. If it is going to make you feel better, go for it. It will instantly make you feel better and people will leave you alone for a while.

Break the routine. Do something different than you normally would. Take a different way to work. Eat something you don’t normally eat. Talk to someone you have never met. Just that simple little break in routine can make a difference in your day and maybe someone else’s.